If you don't have access to parallel versions of all 3, then I'd suggest starting with the easiest to replace components first
RMA the memory first, that seems the most likely culprit, and ensure that you get RAM that is listed compatible. Ensure you follow the list in the manual (NOT the manufacturers website) as the website version may include modules that have had compatibility introduced with newer BIOS updates (and of course you cant update your BIOS if the machine won't post!).
Next, try RMAing the CPU.
If you STILL cant get the machine to boot (we've ruled out the video card) then you will need to get the motherboard replaced.
If after ALL that it STILL wont work - consider yourself extremely unlucky, demand a full refund, and order your kit from somewhere else from the ground up.
I don't mean to patronise you but... have you checked that the motherboard is seated properly?
One of my PC builds didnt POST, and it turned out the motherboard was slightly bowed around the CPU (I had a SHIT socket that required about 8 tons of force to seat the heatsink/fan). The motherboard was shorting on the metal case. I bent the motherboard back into shape with a screwdriver (not recommended) and voila, it worked!
So, try taking out your entire motherboard, make sure no screws etc have got lost in there, make sure you have fitted all the motherboard spacers correctly, then reseat the motherboard and components.