Check the Intel site and most of the OC-ing sites, and you will find idel temps around 38c - 43c and full load around 48c - 53c. The Intel specs are listed here:
ftp://download.intel.com/design/processor/datashts/31327802.pdf
See chapter 5. It clearly shows that you should never get above 60.1c
If your getting above 53c, reseat the HSF or get a better one. Check out the "sticky" in the Overclocking CPU forum here on TG. The writer put together a great list of HSF for use with the Core 2.
Also, check different temp programs. The baords seem to make a difference. The Asus ones seem to run low. The Gigabyte high. The Intel D975XBX runs right where they say it should. Go figure.
Bottom line: Don't worry, the chip will shut down long before it bursts into flames. If it's not slowing down, you really shouldn't worry.
My Rig:
Core 2 Duo X6800 Conroe (Stock Clock for Now)
Intel D975XBXLRK
Thermaltake Big Typhoon HSF
2 GB Corsair Pro PC6400 4-4-4-15
74GB 10k Raptor
ATI X1900XTX
SB Audigy 2 ZS
NEC DVD OEM Burners (x2)
Ultra X-Finity 600w SLi Certified PS
Gigabyte 3D Aurora Case