What is it about escapism? Gaming, blogging, internet surfing, gambling [insert favorite vice here] ...why are these things so infinitely appealing?
Is it that it's all just easier?
Am I wrong is assuming that there's more to life...more meaningful pursuits?
Or do these pursuits fill a void that is essentially being unmet by people's "normal" daily lives?
What is it about escapism? Gaming, blogging, internet surfing, gambling [insert favorite vice here] ...why are these things so infinitely appealing?
Is it that it's all just easier?
Am I wrong is assuming that there's more to life...more meaningful pursuits?
Or do these pursuits fill a void that is essentially being unmet by people's "normal" daily lives?
I'm really bi-curious...
Well, perhaps you are using these escapist pursuits to hide from those bi-curious feelings. Perhaps if you just gave into them you wouldn't need to bother with trivialities.
Myself, I live in a basement and have no life. However, that in itself is a step up from the bridge I used to live under let me tell you.
------------------------------I'm a git, deal with it.
The Sociological Imagination (1959), Mills' most influential work, describes a mindset—the sociological imagination—for doing sociology that stresses being able to connect individual experiences and societal relationships. The three components that form the sociological imagination are:
1. History: how a society came to be and how it is changing and how history is being made in it
2. Biography: the nature of "human nature" in a society; what kind of people inhabit a particular society
3. Social Structure: how the various institutional orders in a society operate, which ones are dominant, how are they held together, how they might be changing, etc.
In The Sociological Imagination, Mills asserts that one must look inside oneself to help important research problems, and that social scientists "translate private troubles into public issues." [2] Additionally on this topic, Mills maintained throughout The Sociological Imagination that it is very difficult for most individuals in society to link their personal troubles to the cultural institutions in which they live.
The Sociological Imagination gives the one possessing it the ability to look beyond their local environment and personality to wider social structures and a relationship between history, biography and social structure.
I realize that expecting something other than ridicule in this forum is something akin to lunacy on my part...
However, as you took the time to copy and paste, I shall endeavor to frame my questions accordingly.
History:
What are the factors that have led our society towards its present state with regards to the abundance of escapist outlets? The sheer number of available mindless pursuits, as well as the enormous amount of resources used in the creation of new ones is astronomical.
Biography:
What are we the people escaping from? Is it fear of responsibility? Is it apathy that leads us to lend credence to today's "news"? What kind of people are we to be so taken by all this crap? Do other technological societies spend the same amount of money and time on "mindless leisure" as do North Americans?
Social Structure:
Now here we ask, how are we the people contributing to the whole mess? Is it a chicken v. egg scenario? The institutions in our society do reflect our interests as a whole, but I think they tend towards our more base interests. Seldom do we see institutions upholding a higher ethic. Clearly we cannot look to said institutions to be harbingers of change towards improved cultural endeavor.
Now...to clarify...I don't watch much television, I'm not a news junkie (though I try to be informed), I don't game (any more), I don't blog, I go outside to "be" regularly, I have wonderful friends and rich relationships, I love to read, and I spend a lot of time pondering. My entire quandary is BECAUSE I look beyond myself at our wider social structures...and what I see disgusts me.
I would like to go live in a grass hut for a year. However, I have responsibilities for the time being (read children), and so I must bide my time...
What is it about escapism? Gaming, blogging, internet surfing, gambling [insert favorite vice here] ...why are these things so infinitely appealing?
Is it that it's all just easier?
Am I wrong is assuming that there's more to life...more meaningful pursuits?
Or do these pursuits fill a void that is essentially being unmet by people's "normal" daily lives?
I'm really curious...
Hello.
So so much is escapism. We are escaping the Buddha's "architect" and the strangest thing is that by so doing...we are in fact identifying ourselves with it. Call it ego. May as well give it the big entrance: Ego....
I've said too much already me me me I'm HERE can't you SEE
ok ... it's a little like being possesed...actually it's a lot like that..the only question that needs to be dwelled on by a seeker is this.....who or what is posessing who or what?
History:
What are the factors that have led our society towards its present state with regards to the abundance of escapist outlets? The sheer number of available mindless pursuits, as well as the enormous amount of resources used in the creation of new ones is astronomical.
The present state of our society the direct result of the inner drive to achieve it. We as humans have this inner drive genetically to forge ahead with little thought about it. As long as we "feel" we're moving ahead, or progressing, everything is as it should be. Or is it?
Biography:
What are we the people escaping from? Is it fear of responsibility? Is it apathy that leads us to lend credence to today's "news"? What kind of people are we to be so taken by all this crap? Do other technological societies spend the same amount of money and time on "mindless leisure" as do North Americans?
Escaping I think is the wrong word. We're not "escaping" so much as we're not taking the time to actually absorb what's going on. There's a disconnect between us and ourselves. Sometimes you need to slow down to go faster, but genetically and socially we're not "allowed" to. Most can't slow down and actually think about what's going on, what it means to us, and most importantly, how we feel about it. Ironically you're considered weak if you actually contemplate this while others mindlessly pursue nothing but "progress" with no clue as to why.
My entire quandary is BECAUSE I look beyond myself ...
This IS your quandary. You can't look beyond yourself until you first understand yourself. I don't mean in selfish terms, I mean in an understanding way. You'll never understand the outside world if you don't first begin to understand yourself. It's all bullsh*t and life's between your ears. You must first come to grips with how you feel, think, and relate to things before you can start beginning to understand how you feel and fit in with everything else. Everything beyond yourself is just plumage and open to interpretation. None of it will ever sit well with you until you're comfortable with yourself, you're feelings, and how you want to relate to it all.
Thank you King... I'm grateful for your response and for the time you took to do so thoughtfully. I have spent a lot of time working to understand myself, and I feel happy with who I understand myself to be. =) I am working on being comfortable with feelings...particularly feelings of anger as MY social upbringing didn't seem to honor those feelings.
I agree that people are considered weak who contemplate the disconnect between I and Me. I think that many people are threatened by this, as it indicates that there may be something wrong with THEIR world view or perceptions and that is entirely too frightening.
I'm sad that the forum will be closed...this place has long been a unique and unexpected source of comfort for me.
Take care everyone, it's been nice to hang out here again...brief as it was.