Your NIC is probably timing out trying to connect to your cable modem before WinXPPro is fully loaded. The time out might last a minute or so, in which case can cause the problem. I always recommend to set your NIC to 100Mbit Full Duplex to get rid of any possible negotiation problems or slow connections.
Try a different NIC to see if the problem keeps happening.
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