You might be able to twist the heatsink a little bit with a tiny bit of effort and feel how tight it really is. As long as it's snug and not going to let space get in between the CPU and the heatsink it's fine. It doesn't have to be attached with such force that you can't twist it a little (provided it's connected at two points), but it should be tight enough that you could almost pick your motherboard up by it and not have it seperate from the CPU (don't actually try to do this though). The force it takes for different brackets varies. The stock AMD cooler for my socket 939 CPU's seem to be harder to attach then my enormous Zalman CNPS9500 which weighs a lot more. Although it weighs a lot more, it still stays put - even when the motherboard is vertical in the case. So it really comes down to logic. If it seems like it's not going to seperate, good. If it doesn't crack the die when you force it down (and CPU's with evenly distributed downard pressure can take a good deal of weight) then you're good. You're more likely to break your motherboard than the CPU, which is why you should work on a flat even surface when installing CPU coolers. I usually put foam underneath the anti-static bag and put my motherboard on that to help distribute weight off the solder points on my mobo if I'm pushing down hard to install a cooler.