I've never heard of a "software switch" for a wireless card. In order for such a switch to function, the card would have to have some sort of permanent memory. There would be a way to reset or clear this memory if it did in fact exist.
More likely, the drivers were not installed for the card. The lights usually indicate two things: Link and Activity... but it depends on the manufacturer. Sometimes the Link and Activity light are the same light, while the other light indicates link speed. If there are no drivers installed and functioning for the card, the lights will not work. If you can find the proper Linux driver for the card, then you can turn it back "on"... but my guess is that unless there is a physical switch somewhere on the card or computer... the card isn't enabled because it doesn't have a driver installed. There is no other way to permanently disable the card... because to do so would be absurd. No one would buy or use a wireless card that could only be turned on or off with Windows. Now, it's not unusual for manufacturers to put out wireless hardware that only has drivers for Windows... but it's extremely unlikely that a card disabled in Windows will continue to be disabled after the OS is completely wiped and reinstalled. The only other option you can check is to see if the card has been disabled in BIOS... which is possible if the card came as part of the computer.