Yes, the card needs both plugs to function. What PSU does your friend have? If it does not come with 6 pin PCI-e connectors it's probably not one of the newest or powerfull ones. Make sure the 12v rail has enough amps to supply the card with enough power. As for the 8-pin, these are needed when you want to OC. Asfar as I understand the card disables OC-ing from control panel if the 8 pin is not connected.
GL.