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[mxsi64]

I now this may sound very much, but, can you guys advise me in 2 days I will order a system and need to get a good deal, so I post what i find.

CPU
E4300
Motherboard
TforceP965 http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813138039 99.99
Can I run it on this one?? BIOSTAR TForce TP35D2-A7 http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813138075 p35 mobo, is so i can get this chipset for 5 bucks more (104.99)
Memory
Adata 2x1GB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820211066 88.99 Cas 5-5-5-18 1.8V
Adata 2x1GB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820211174 99.99 Cas 4-4-4-12 2T 2.0-2.1V
Super Talent 2X1GB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820609026 103.99 Cas 4-4-3-8 2.1V
G.Skill 2xGB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820231114 114.99 Cas 4-4-3-5 2.0-2.1V
PNY 2X1GB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820178148 114.99 Cas 4-4-4-12 2.1V EPP
OCZ Reaper HPC 2x1GB http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820227231 124.99 Cas 4-4-4-15 2.2V EPP-Ready .1T
FAN
Zero Therm http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16835887002 39.99
Video
Can I play blu-ray on this??? Leadtek 8600GT http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814122024 99.99 540Core 1400Mem.

In some of them I have various options and i wanted to know what is the best deal wich give me better performance, and overclocking capability, for the money, If you have any sugestions arround the price I am posting for any component that could work better at overclocking, I not planning an extreme OC, just to lead this 4300 to 2.6 or a maximum of 3.0 or the maximum for the price I can affort.

Thanks a lot guys you are very helpful

 

[dragonsprayer]

first i am not going to click on all those links but let me say this:

first, get a 6000 series chip

second get ram that boots at low voltage: 1.9v 4-4-3-10 muskin, 4-4-3-8 super talent or 4-4-3-5 gskill - in that order

third, skip the 8600 - get a an 8800GTS do not go cheap in this area - you will understand one day!