Well, you seem to already have it up and running, so that's good. I'd try booting without the +.3v increase to see if it works. Prime95 is a good program to stress your computer, but it can't test all of the RAM. I recommend Memtest86+ for that as there's only like 50k of RAM that won't be tested using the boot CD. It's also free so nobody can complain about the price. Just run memtest86+ before bed and let it run all night.
As for 'seeing' the performance increase. I'd say you probably won't notice.
Not to sound like i'm talking down to you, but if you are asking if the different in CAS will be noticable, you surely aren't one of the power users that will notice. I'm not a car guy, but if someone put in a turbocharger, nitro and whatnot I might notice because I just drive to and from work/store/movies. But, if I were taking my car racing all the time, I'm sure i'd know something was up, even if I didn't know anyone did anything to my car.