Alright..I made the list..here it is...Make sure you read it thoroughly. I'm also adding a section after for additional optional choices..
Motherboard-
GIGABYTE GA-P35-DS3R LGA 775 Intel P35 ATX Intel Motherboard
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16813128050
Popular mobo....Should do you justice...
If you prefer a dif brand you can look at asus models as well...Such as the Asus P5k series...Although prices to get higher on asus mobos. I only checked the gigabyte model via google for the ram compatibility....not the asus p5k...whichever mobo you plan to nab make sure it's compatible with your ram.
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Processor-
Intel Core 2 Duo E6750 Conroe 2.66GHz 4M shared L2 Cache LGA 775 Processor
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819115029&Tpk=e6750
Keep reading the end of the article for 2nd choice.
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Heatsink-
Tuniq Tower 120
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16835154001
Some people prefer the Tuniq 120 while some like the Thermalright ultra120...Very similar performance although the ultra is just barely ahead. But I've heard people saying that the ultra isn't 100% flat in some scenarios...Most people lap them...which I don't have the time or patience for..So I just nabbed a tuniq for my pc.
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Case-
Thermaltake Armor Series VA8003BWS Black Full Tower Case w/ 25CM Fan
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16811133021
Heard many good things about this case...If she doesn't like blue lights and all that jazz she can nab the fans I've listed below. If she doesn't like windows there is other optional choices at the end of the article..keep reading.
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Hard Drives-
Western Digital Raptor WD1500ADFD 150GB 10,000 RPM
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16822136012
Seagate Barracuda ES ST3500630NS 500GB 7200 RPM
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16822148151
I chose the Western digital since Hard drives are the biggest bottleneck. Helpful for a workstation rig. While the seagate is here for storage. I chose the seagate instead of the WD Caviar SE cause of the reliability and warranty. The Seagate has 5 years while the WD Caviar has 3. I've had many drives in the past and so far half my WD drives have died while all of my Seagate drives are still running perfectly.
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Graphics Card-
MSI RX2600XT Diamond Radeon HD 2600XT 256MB 128-bit GDDR4
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16814127305
you don't really need too much since she's not gaming. Just a good enough card for graphics/video. It also has Avivo which helps on video. As well as high definition video decoding.
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PSU-
CORSAIR CMPSU-620HX
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16817139002
Tier 2 PSU...can't go wrong.
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Ram-
Crucial Ballistix 2GB DDR2 1066 (PC2 8500) Dual Channel Kit
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16820148069
D9 Micron chips = yummy....great overclockers
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Case Fans-
2X Scythe S-FLEX SFF21F 120mm
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16835185006
2X KINGWIN F-09BB-4pin 90mm
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16811999966
They didn't have many 90mm fans..but the Scythes 120mm are a great ratio between airflow and noise.
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Optical Drives-
2X LITE-ON LH-20A1L-05 (SATA + Lightscribe)
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16827106073
if you want you can drop one...but I always prefer having 2 drives just incase I want to do a quick copy.
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Floppy-
Uber elite floppy drive of doom :lol:
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16821152005
Very useful...bios updates and all that jazz.
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Thermal Paste-
Arctic Silver 5
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16835100007
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Tablet for the lovely lady-
WACOM Intuos3 PTZ631W 6" x 11" Active Area USB Tablet
http://www.newegg.com/product/product.asp?item=N82E16883100026
I chose a widescreen tablet since she will probably get a widescreen monitor...If she doesn't get a widescreen monitor make sure you switch this out for a normal sized waacom tablet. Don't go with any other tablet then waacom...They are the best in the business...
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ATM that all totaled up comes up to $1,813.93 dollars. There is also 90 dollars worth of rebates to bring it down to $1,723.93...I think there was around 3-4 rebates as well. Do keep in mind I added the tablet also which is a wide screen tablet. This all depends on the monitor she goes for. If it's too early for the tablet you can drop it and reduce the price to $1,443.93. With rebates that would drop down to $1,353.93.
Overall a solid system build. But here are some additional options if you wish to choose different parts.
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Case-
If she doesn't like the idea of the window case she can get this one instead.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16811133032
I don't personally own a thermaltake armor but I've heard MANY good things about it.
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Fans-
the one I chose in the original list is the high CFM Scythe s-flex fan. They have one that's slightly cheaper and quieter although it has lower CFM's.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16835185005
Overall I don't think she wants to be overrun by noise...The ones I chose are great for their airflow at 29 DB at around 67 CFM's. But these ones are quiter if you want to sacrifice a little airflow....ol...Do keep in mind though that the high CFM Scythe s-flex is 29.99 on new egg in singles..but if you buy bulk the prices drops dramatically. If you buy 2 which is what I setup for this rig it drops down to around 13 or 14 each.
The small 90mm fans on posted in the system above are really one of the three 90mm fans that newegg sells. So wasn't many choices...The 90mm fan is almost as loud as the 120mm Scythe fans...that should give you an idea of how silence the scythe fans are....They have great airflow for their sound range also.
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Graphics Card-
I chose the ATI card listed in the rig since ati's avivo technology imo is better then nvidias. Although here is a 2nd choice on a GFX card.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814130088
This one has a lifetime warranty compared to the ATI one...So that might be more useful but the choice is yours. There is probably not much of a difference in terms of quality between those two visually but I prefer ATI when it comes to video quality. Just wanted to give you some options. EVGA is a great brand..too bad they only do nvidia cards >_<...their lifetime warranty, customer service, and Step-Up program are top notch..although step-up is only a 3 month duration just in case you wanted to know.
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Processor-
Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600 Kentsfield 2.4GHz
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819115017
This choice is up to you. Video editing applications, 3d modeling, video encoding, and some other apps are multi threaded. So it's up to you if you want the quad. It will bring the price of the rig up by $80.00 but worth it imo. If you aren't going to OC you may as well just nab the E6750....But it also depends on how long this rig will be used. If you are oc'ing 100% then nab the quad...a MUCH better deal and the life of the rig will last longer. Overall I'd nab a quad regardless...but the choice is yours. Some prefer the higher clock speeds if they are going to upgrade within a year or two anyways...Great price for the 6750...But for my uses quad is more beneficial...Choice is yours.
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That's all...Hope this helps you out. Keep in mind if you want to go even higher on the parts you can drop the tablet. If she gets a widescreen monitor that would be the best tablet for her. If she's going to be using a non widescreen make sure she gets a normal sized tablet.
Regarding the monitor. What is she planning to get? Also what is her budget? If she has a lax budget I would recommend no smaller then a 24"....If she wants a real top notch display I would recommend the Nec 2490WUXI. It doesn't have a Wide Gamut like the 2690 version...It has a 76% Gamut which is normal. Wider Gamut displays are basicly much richer colors. Images tend to look oversaturated although it is great...But not too great if your working for precise colors. Fortunately photoshop can notice the color space and adjust it so you don't run into color accuracy problems....But the choice is hers. If she wants a top notch display the 2490 WUXI is great but expensive at 1400-1500 dollars. The 2690 model runs around 1600-1700. There are other choices out there which are also great. If she doesn't want to spend that much on a expensive monitor she can nab the Planar PX2611. It's a 26 inch IPS panel monitor for around 900-1000. Great deal...although they are not as good as the nec models but for the money and size they are a steal. All great monitors with IPS panels. Try to stay away from TN, PVA/MVA....If she's serious about her graphical work only IPS will do. Try to make sure she goes a big monitor route. Getting two smaller 1280x1024 based monitors is a pain. I've been doing graphic design, video editing, video special effects, 3d modeling and many other tasks for a few years...My brother also goes to Art Center in Pasadena, CA which is a prestigious art school...He goes crazy over the size of his monitor since it's so tiny...Most the time you need a large single look on your works compared to splitting everything on two monitors...just get one large one it's more ideal. If she ends up in the future wanting another then she should get another large monitor for a dual display.
Too tired to re-read everything for typos so I apologize if some segments are confusing. If you have any questions feel free to ask. Ohhh..and one more thing...If you want to nab different ram go for it...I chose the ballistix modules because they use D9 micron chips. I was trying to find some 2X2 GB modules to bring it up to 4gb but newegg doesn't have all the best choices. If you are going to go the 4gb route then nab windows XP 64bit.
Enjoy ^^...looking forward to your questions/comments.