That was a good one, I had to break out the dictionary.
And yes, they have been. Mostly because I have (hopefully) garnered enough people's respect around here that I don't need to sugar coat everything I say. I say what I mean and at times it comes off harsh.
I apologize if I offend anyone, but I make my comments in the best interest of assisting the OP. In this situation while it may aggrevate the OP, it is in his best interest.