Help with GA-EP43-DS3L and E8400?

Hi, I'm a bit of an overclocking noob (as in a lot) so I'm looking for some help overclocking my E8400 on a Gigabyte EP43-DS3L.
I've tried to follow some of the beginners guides, increasing FSB by a little bit and setting the RAM speed back but its not working... After exiting the BIOS it won't POST the first time, then it'll restart with the CPU settings restored to default and boot fine. Its been annoying me a lot, if you guys could post BIOS settings that would be great. Thanks.

I did, I'm having a lot of trouble though. I can't get the computer to POST changing any settings. Even moving the FSB up a little bit and adjusting other settings. I'm only trying to get to 3.6 GHZ right now and I moved from 3.00 to 3.16 (FSB 350) and it doesn't POST. Then it'll restart a few times and the old settings will be restored.

I was wondering if there are settings I'm missing or something?
Heres my MB Intelligent Tweaker:

Robust Graphics Booster->Auto
CPU Clock Ratio->9X

*****Clock Chip Control*****

>>>Standard Clock Control
CPU Host Clock Control->Enabled
CPU Host Frequency (Mhz)->333
PCI Express Frequency (Mhz)->100
C.I.A.2->Disabled

>>>Advanced Clock Control
CPU Clock Drive->800mV
PCI Express Clock Drive->800mV
CPU Clock Skew->0ps
MCH Clock Skew->0ps

*****DRAM Performance Control*****
Performance Enhance->Standard
Extreme Memory Profile (X.M.P.)->Auto
(G)MCH Frequency Latch->333 Mhz
System Memory Multiplier (SPD)->2.40B

DRAM Timing Selectable (SPD)->Manual

>>>Standard Timing Control
CAS Latency Time->5
tRCD->5
tRP->5
tRAS->15

>>>Advanced Timing Control
tRRD->3 (Auto)
tWTR->3 (Auto)
tWR->6 (Auto)
tRFC->54 (Auto)
tRTP->3 (Auto)
Command Rate (CMD)->0 (Auto)

*****Mother Board Voltage Control*****
>>>CPU
CPU Vcore->1.22500V
CPU Termination->Auto
CPU PLL->Auto
CPU Reference->Auto

>>>MCH/ICH
MCH Core->Auto
ICH I/O->Auto

>>>DRAM
DRAM Voltage->1.800V

What settings should I try to get on my way?
Thanks.

System Memory Multiplier (SPD)->2.40B?

A lost of OC problems are due to incorrect memory freq. When increase FSB, memory freq goes up as well. Try to keep memory freq low like ratio: 1:1 with FSB freq so you can at least eliminate memory as a culprit of your problem.

CPU Vcore->1.22500V?

increase it.

Have the same board with a Q9450 @ 3.3Ghz. No problems.

74c is very high.

in CPU-Z it is saying 1.312 V so I guess im in the safe zone?