Well i tried everything everyone said, and still nothing. I got the screen to start loading with 4 in after i changed the volt and timings but it stuck on that screen. I rebooted and bam back to the black screen. Pulled the card out stared at my machine for a minute and day dreamed of taking a bat to it.... I think i am going to have to chalk it up to a bad slot or a bad ram.
lets say my slot if bad or something would it still boot same with the ram stick. Are these common problems with bad parts? Well thx everyone for all of your input =D. I might just buy a new board and some 2gig ram sticks who knows.