Yeah the OEMs have the stripped BIOS but they have custom BIOSs. I hate them with a passion, but I certainly understand their point. It did irritate me when I had to install SpeedFan to raise the fan on a Prescott in an HP machine, but such is life.
sa_ill, there is a program called Memset that will do it, but it is temporary only and used for tweaking.
Even if you could change the timings you probably wouldn't notice, so let it go. If that was the most money I burned by mistake/"accident" I would be happy. I could tell you some expensive, computer unrelated, stories.
Chalk it up to experience, at least that's what I always tell myself.