PALIT Geforce™ 9500gt Vs. PALIT Geforce™ 8600gt Super+1gb,

Can i recommend a ATI 4670, I think they are around the same price. If not a 9500GT is a rebranded 8600GT. So there is not much of a performance different.

ati 4670 it runs flipping fast preforms on par with 9600 gt

Wow, that is a bad lot of choices there.
FYI, the 9500GT and the 8600GT have the exact same GPU core.
As long as they are clocked the same and have the same amount/type of memory, they will perform the same.
That is to say that neither will give you an adequate gaming experience.

With the two choices you present, assuming the core/shader clocks are the same as they are not listed, you are SOL either way. The 9500GT offers faster DDR3 memory but only 256Mb of it which is not enough. The 8600GT has an over abundance of memory, about twice what you need, but it is slower DDR2.

Echoing the above posters, you should defiantly look into a 4670 512Mb card.
It is a MUCH better performer, about twice as fast, and will not cost much more.

Go for a 4670. It offers nearly 2x the performance of a 9500, and is just below a 4850 in terms of quality.