I would take a close look at all the recommended hardware requirements and recommended hardware specifications you will need for running the applications you want to run. From the sounds of it, you won't need something that will play Crysis (a hardware intensive PC game) at max video settings, but rather something that can run a web browser, and a few other various applications all at once. Intel does offer boards with onboard video. I believe the Classic and Executive series to be more specific. Pairing one of those up with a Core 2 Duo processer, (there are many different versions all differeing in speed and FSB which essentially determine the price difference) with an Intel Classic series board would probably suffice for you. I say intel, because it is incredibly simple to find the right CPU for a motherboard or motherboard for a particular CPU on Intel's website. Quite litterally, you can choose the model of a CPU or Motherboard, and it will spit out all compatiabilities. Here's where you can do that:
http://processormatch.intel.com/CompDB/
In terms of memory, the motherboard does determine the max memory that can be installed, but the OS also can only address a certain amount based on what OS version is being used (OS being Operating System). I believe regular Windows XP Pro 32-bit will only be able to see a little more than 3 GBs of memory where as Vista Ultimate will be able to utilize far far more being a 64 bit OS. There are of course several different versions of windows in between those two just mentioned.
So getting a board with the ability to support 16GB in comparison to one that supports 4GB, but only running an OS that will support only around 3 or a little more GBs of memory will be in a sense not worth the cost, if that is really the only difference and there is no plan to upgrade the OS. (This amount is determined by the number of addresses the current hardware installed uses, for example a 64MB video card installed will use up to 64MB of addresses along with any other hardware installed as well).
In my opinion you should plan out which OS you plan to install, and perhaps which OS you may upgrade to in the future, and see how much memory that OS will allow you to utilize, and then figure that into your selection of a motherboard.
Deciding what compoents you want and what components you will need for what you are doing can sometimes be two entirely different lists for some people.
My advice to you is to start with a CPU or Motherboard, find a compatiable Motherboard or CPU respectivly. Then from there, try and find for the motherboard a list of compatible memory for that particular board. (The board manufactur may not take the time to test all the different types and brands of memory, but the memory manufactur might test a particular module of memory on a larger variaty of boards).
You may want to check to see if the board has IDE interfaces, or SATA interfaces, or both. The popular intel boards usually have both, and from the sounds of what you want to do, an optical drive (CD or DVD drive) with an IDE interface and a Hard Drive with a SATA interface would suffice. Also, take into consideration, that if you need a floppy drive as well, you should make sure you motherboard supports that interfacet too, as newer boards coming out are starting to do away with that interface.
Refering back to compatible motherboards for the processor you mentioned, heres the list of all Intel brand motherboards that will be fully compatible with that specific processor:
http://processormatch.intel.com/CompDB/SearchResult.asp...
I hope this helps you out, and if any of what I said is misleading or incorrect, please call me out on it, as I believe that being corrected is just another way of learning something.
Let me know how it goes too!