having issues with new desktop

i built my own pc (i believe its the tenth one ive built) back in august, and unfortunately the frustrations i had with it caused me to give up...well, im back at it again, and i think i finally have the problem narrowed down to having some issue with the mobo driver...i have an asus p5n72-t premium mobo with an intel 2.66g quad core and 4gb of ddr800 ram...when i dont have the driver installed the computer runs fine, but whenever i install the forceware i cant get it running without bluescreening 20 seconds into the XP desktop with some message about the motherboard driver, unfortunately, i forgot what the message was and i have already successfully uninstalled the driver....does anyone have any suggestions?

thank you!