While some of the items you listed are better then what I’m suggesting, the point of the build is gaming right? So, I think the money is better spent on items that will enhance your gaming performance.
SAMSUNG Black 22X DVD $24.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Little cheaper than the one you listed, but Samsung is a good company.
Western Digital Caviar RE WD2500YD 250GB $44.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Smaller size but if it’s only a gaming rig, 250gb should be plenty of space
COOLER MASTER Elite 330 $34.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Cheap by some standards, but it does what a case is supposed to do. It’s harddrive cage is also half the width than normal, so you can install basically any graphics card into it, (just don’t have a HDD on the same level as the GPU) There is 12 inches between the back and the HDD cage. Far as I know the 4850x2 is the largest pcb design so far at 11.5inch.
ASUS P5Q Pro $114.99 ($99 after $15 Mail in rebate)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Has extensive Overclocking features. Can handle high fsb speeds. Conduct a search of p5q pro review and see for yourself.
Intel Core 2 Duo E8400 Wolfdale 3.0GHz $164.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Well it’s not a quad core, but it will pair nicely with the p5q pro. Quads don’t overclock as nice on the p5q pro. Most games will not utilize all four cores anyways and this should be plenty of power even at stock speeds. You should be able to oc this to 3.6ghz w/o any effort.
ARCTIC COOLING Freezer 7 Pro 92mm CPU Cooler $26.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
This was suggested to me by another person, plus it has like 3,000 reviews. It does have pushpin installation but it works well once its installed (according to the reviews)
Microsoft Windows Vista Home Premium SP1 64-bit English OEM $99.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Not much to say about this.
CORSAIR Dominator 2GB (2 x 1GB) 240-Pin DDR2 SDRAM DDR2 1066 (PC2 8500) $52.00 ($22 after 30$ mail in rebate)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
P5Q pro natively supports 1066, manuel says it can even support 1200. This ram is on the QVL list. Its cheap, looks cool, and is even cheaper if that rebate comes in. I believe 1066ram will allow you to overclock further then 800 (not sure on that, but I think generally its true)
SAPPHIRE 100245L Radeon HD 4850 512MB $154.99 ($134.99 after mail in rebate)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
This should be leaps and bounds better then that 9600 GSO you have listed. Since the title is “$800 gaming build” I’m going to assume it’s for games, so you should spend some more on the gpu.
COOLER MASTER Real Power Pro RS-650-ACAA-A1 650W $79.99 ($49.99 after mail in rebate) but you know that since you picked it out.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E168...
Not sure on this, above poster suggested one so maybe go with his.
Total is $824.29 (including $25.38 shipping) w/o any rebates
Total if all rebates work out $729.99