Just make sure the RAM is not clocked slower?
While the extra ram helps for high resolution and filtering, its hard to say really if the 9800GT can actually cope under such situation. If it cannot, then you will still end up lowering your setting to a playable one, in which the VRAM usage will drop too, fitting nicely into 512MB
But if the RAM speed remains the same, then I guess its ok then.
Though I personally will not advise you to go all out and get the 1GB for a 9800GT, which isn't exactly capable of high res quality gaming anyway.