OK, first lower your memory multiplier to take your memory out of the equation, then raise your fsb until it doesn't boot or crashes, then slowly up your vcore, nb, ich until it's stable while monitoring your core temperatures and stress testing. Oh, also set your pcie to 100 and disable your spread spectrumes and also set your gtl ref voltages. Then raise you ram back up and set optimum settings and voltage.
Is that better, probably not since you most likely have no idea of what i've just said.
Read a few OCing guides so you have some idea of what you are doing.
You cannot cookbook an overclock. There's so much variance in individual components that there's a lot of trial and error involved. And the more you know about it, the less likely any errors that occur will be catastrophic.