[First System Build] Need Some Advice :)

You won't need the ram until the "future" when you want to overclock.
WD 640 AAKS Blue or AALS Black (faster than 1TB). At 1TB either a Samsung Spinpoint or WD Black would be good choices.
In the "future" you will want a new cpu cooler. Research these in the forum since nobody seems to like my cooler picks.
Consider pricing your stuff through newegg.ca as well just for comparison.
The P5Q-EM has integrated graphics and is a microATX board. Why?
I would much prefer a P45 ATX board like the P5Q Pro.

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