If you leave it in the socket you can't bend the pins if it is a pga.
If by stock intel grease, you mean pad, a credit card might help, pads are pretty tough. when trying to remove a heat sink I've pulled PGA processor right out of the socket with our lifting the lever they stick so hard.
solvents like mentioned above will remove a pad , but it takes a while. Even if you scrap it off with a credit card, you will still need solvent