Yeah why would you downgrade from 2 9800GT's to a single 9800GTX+??
So basically you returned the card because your too lazy to install your drivers correctly. Its morons like you that cause people like us to have to pay restocking fees.
Now you want us to recommend a new miracle card for you that will work while you have old and new drivers installed at the same time, lol, good luck.
Great bit of help there, I suppose you knew everything about computers from the first time you saw one.
I found the answer to my question several posts down, salabarria intended to go with SLI GTX+.