If your connector descriptions are correct you have an old style PSU. This article with its images will help you.
http://www.hardwaresecrets.com/article/181/3
And if you do have an old style PSU you should make sure you have the power needed and if you need a new PSU. The old PSU designs give more power on the minor 5 and 3.3 volt rails than the 12 volt rail. Modern PSU give most of the power generated on the 12 volt rail.
The GA-EP45-UD3P mobo comes with a plug or cover on the ATX 12V 2x4 connector so a 2X2 connector can be used. It says so in your manual on page 23.
The ATX_12V_2X4 power connector is compatible with power supplies with 2x2 12V power
connector. When using a power supply providing a 2x4 12V and power connector, remove the
protective covers from the 12V power connector and the main power connector on the motherboard.
Do not insert the power supply cables into pins under the protective covers when using a power
supply providing a 2x2 12V power connector.
You will need a 20 to 24 pin power adapter for the main power connector if you decide not to buy a modern PSU.
http://www.xoxide.com/20-to-24-pin-adapter.html