manufacturers are stupid when it comes to this - check what the CHIPSET is actually capable of - seen this before, first gen DDR2 motherboards with Intel chipsets in most manuals state max 1gb sticks, whereas 2gb sticks work fine etc
worst case? sure no post (99% of ram support is dictated by the chipset, 1% bios support etc) but alot of the time the manufacturer is wrong, and if you have a Core 2, the minimum chipset you have is a Intel 945 (few different versions) - they support 2x2gb easily.
al360ex - reguarding sockets etc, it all comes down to VRM design, bios support, pin-out and FSB support, doesnt matter if the sockets are the same they dont all just "work" with anything - Prescott P4's for 775 work in Pentium D supported motherboards yet Pentium D's wont work on first gen 775 boards, Core 2 Duo's required all new motherboards reguardless of the same socket, 45nm variant core 2's rarely work in boards that support 65nm Core 2's from the day, core 2 quad's required new motherboards also.
kickflipper1087 RAM is not a "finicky thing" - follow the golden rules: 1) least ammount of sticks 2) perfect matched pairs or as matched as posible 3) 1:1 ratio (old school rigs) or to Jedec spec for best results/stability, manually set timings and speed