Try CCTL/ERC such as on Samsung. The downside is that these do not survive a reboot, whereas TLER setting does survive a reboot. Some controllers are known to support CCTL/ERC and send it on every boot to the disks; not sure which controllers those are.
I would recommend avoiding the need for TLER-enabled disks. It makes your storage more expensive and more error-prone versus a solution that works fine with default recovery time disks aka "consumer disks".