I am so confused about which CPU I should get

Okay, this will be my first time build for starters.
I have been reading and researching CPU's for hours now, since everyone says the CPU is where you start when building your own computer. I suddenly came to the conclusion that I am not getting anywhere. I know this so far, I want a 4 quad since I am reading the the duo quads are making an exit from the scene. My purpose for this machine will be first and foremost online gaming, followed by watching movies online and video editing. I am not trying to max out my wallet, but I'm a realist and know you get what you pay for. So any insight to help me choose the brain of my computer would be fantastic. Looking forward to seeing some reply's.

Thanks in advance

OK, let's do the usual song and dance:

1) Decide on a budget. Keep in mind that your choice of CPU will influence your choice of motherboard, memory, and PSU (and vice versa).
2) Go to a comparative benchmark list (Tom's has a very nice one right here: http://www.tomshardware.co.uk/char [...] rs,6.html)
3) Pick a processor that does what you want and fits within your budget.

Based on your "4 quad" and "duo quad" comments, I assume you're shopping for Intel rather than AMD. In that case I suggest you look at the Core i5 or entry-level Core i7. But don't discount AMD completely, their Phenom II range offers great value for money.

Happy hunting.

Do you have details of what games you want to play

Thanks Lucuis, must have copied it wrong somehow...

But anyway, there is a larger-than-life button called "Charts" at the top of the page, for those who haven't noticed it by now....