This is a thread about a moral decision on handling my son on the upgrades that I gave to him as a surprise. This is the deal. He's 21, lives with his grandma, has a 2007 Mustang GT paid for (by grandma), no job, didn't finish school and is not making any moves to improve anything in his life.
He has been playing WOW for a long time now, yes this explains a lot. His previous configuration was the following components:
ASUS K8V-X-SE 754 socket motherboard
Athlon 64 3200+
EVGA 7800GS (actually a nice card for agp)
1g ddr 3200
120g SATA hard drive
Windows XP
His power supply went bad and took out the motherboards ability to use SATA hard drives. I had an issue with my media center setup and changed the mobo and cpu so I had a spare motherboard and cpu I could use in his system along with ddr2 memory.
I upgraded him to the following: Keep in mind these are spare parts
Coolermaster 550 psu
Gigabyte MA790X-UD4P mobo
Phenom II 940 x4 quad cpu
1g ddr2 ram
The rest are old components but work fine. I deliver this setup to him 2 days ago. He hooks it up to his 42" lcd tv and commences to setup his programs. I didn't have my phone on me all day and late tonight there are 30 calls where he tried to call me. I call him back and he has issues with the drivers not showing installed for the video card or the motherboard. I agree to meet him and take the pc back and work on it for the next day to get it going again.
This is where the reason for my post comes in. He says to me with a bit of an attitude that he didn't know why I didn't give him all his stuff (driver disks and windows cd) and that he could have had it fixed tonight. I forgot to include the driver cd and he lost his copy of windows xp and I used one of my copies (temporarily with the intentions to get windows 7 soon). I told him to be glad he has such a nice hardware configuration and that it will be fixed in a day or two. He says he didn't really care and that his old stuff would be fine, he just wanted a working pc.
His attitude sucked in my opinion and my 1st reaction is to gut out the system and put his old components back in it and get an IDE hard drive to work around the issue with the motherboard. I am giving him 350.00 worth of components and all he has for me tonight when I met him to pick the pc back up to fix it is attitude.
I understand the frustration he went through trying to get it to work but he has no clue about what it takes to get what I gave him and I want to teach him a lesson to be more careful what you say as someone may give you what you ask for and to respect and appreciate a fine gift no matter how big or small.
I am venting and anyone that wants to give their input please go ahead.
Thanks...
He has been playing WOW for a long time now, yes this explains a lot. His previous configuration was the following components:
ASUS K8V-X-SE 754 socket motherboard
Athlon 64 3200+
EVGA 7800GS (actually a nice card for agp)
1g ddr 3200
120g SATA hard drive
Windows XP
His power supply went bad and took out the motherboards ability to use SATA hard drives. I had an issue with my media center setup and changed the mobo and cpu so I had a spare motherboard and cpu I could use in his system along with ddr2 memory.
I upgraded him to the following: Keep in mind these are spare parts
Coolermaster 550 psu
Gigabyte MA790X-UD4P mobo
Phenom II 940 x4 quad cpu
1g ddr2 ram
The rest are old components but work fine. I deliver this setup to him 2 days ago. He hooks it up to his 42" lcd tv and commences to setup his programs. I didn't have my phone on me all day and late tonight there are 30 calls where he tried to call me. I call him back and he has issues with the drivers not showing installed for the video card or the motherboard. I agree to meet him and take the pc back and work on it for the next day to get it going again.
This is where the reason for my post comes in. He says to me with a bit of an attitude that he didn't know why I didn't give him all his stuff (driver disks and windows cd) and that he could have had it fixed tonight. I forgot to include the driver cd and he lost his copy of windows xp and I used one of my copies (temporarily with the intentions to get windows 7 soon). I told him to be glad he has such a nice hardware configuration and that it will be fixed in a day or two. He says he didn't really care and that his old stuff would be fine, he just wanted a working pc.
His attitude sucked in my opinion and my 1st reaction is to gut out the system and put his old components back in it and get an IDE hard drive to work around the issue with the motherboard. I am giving him 350.00 worth of components and all he has for me tonight when I met him to pick the pc back up to fix it is attitude.
I understand the frustration he went through trying to get it to work but he has no clue about what it takes to get what I gave him and I want to teach him a lesson to be more careful what you say as someone may give you what you ask for and to respect and appreciate a fine gift no matter how big or small.
I am venting and anyone that wants to give their input please go ahead.
Thanks...