[Solved] Built my computer system, need a question answered!

You need to manually set the RAM speed/timings/voltage to the recommended specs in the BIOS. You may also have a faulty stick of RAM. Try running Memtest86+ on each stick.

Is it this kit?
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Prod [...] 6820148246

If so you shouldnt need to set the timings and voltage manually, the SPD settings would be functional since it runs at the default 1.5volts, the timings will be off but the looser timings should improve stability not make it crash. Run Memtest86+ on each ram stick and see if you can find the problem child.

I use the ram on another computer system and just run the memory? Because the computer I'm using is the only one that can use DDR3

In the problem system, you said that if you only ran a single stick you got video right? Download and burn memtest onto a cd and boot off of that, go through atleast 5 passes on each ram stick. One of them is likely your issue. If you swap them out and hit one that wont give you any video then you have your winner.

One of RAM sticks stop at the Bios Post code 31 but the rest go to 00. All individual sticks give no visual on the screen.

Not anymore, I removed two ram sticks before and powered on, got the Asrock x58 Extreme LOGO on my screen and went to insert to boot thing. I rechecked and it went. Third try, I get no picture with one RAM stick installed. I tried each, the Post code goes to either 31 or 37 now. I have the 8 pin 12v wire above the RAM but it is shielded.

Checkpoint 31 Post Code, description:
"Allocate memory for ADM module and uncompress it. Give control to ADM module for initialization. initialize language and font modules for ADM. Activate ADM module."

Checkpoint 37 Post Code, description:
"Displaying sign-on message, CPU information, setup key message, and any OEM specific information."