deadjon, G'byte motherboards do not have 'Linked', 'Auto' and 'Unlinked' settings like the nVidia chipsets, for example.
swifty, I am guessing that you have DDR3-1333 or DDR3-1600 (advertised) RAM. (Sure wish I knew more about your memory.
At 3.8 GHz (I bet you have an E0 core), you are running your FSB at 422 MHz. At an FSB:RAM ratio of 1:1 (most stable), your memory clock would be 1688 MHz. DDR3 RAM - each bus cycle generates 4 memory clock cycles.
The simple solution is to go into the BIOS and change the System Memory Multiplier from Auto to 3.0. You should see your memory clock drop to around 1266 MHz which will put your memory within its capabilities. It will cost you a little speed in memory i/o but Core2 CPU's are relatively insensitive to that. I suspect it is because of the relatively large CPU cache, but I don't know for certain.
The problem with this is that you are running your memory a little slower than the FSB.
Now, if you do have DDR3-1600 RAM, you are trying to run it a little beyond its capability. Try this:
Set your System Mem Mult to 4.0., giving you an FSB:RAM ratio of 1:1. Take the memory voltage off Auto and increase it to 1.65 volts if it is not there already. Then try to boot. 1.65 volts is a safe voltage for the RAM chips and because the Q9550 does not have an Integrated Memory Conroller, you will not damage the CPU chip.
If that doesn't work or you have DDR3-333 RAM, try this old overclocker trick:
Sys Mem Mult to 4.0, RAM voltage to 1.65 volts and relax the memory timings one set of numbers. Proportion should be 1-1-1-3.
For example, if your timings are 7-7-7-20 or 21, change to 8-8-8-24 or even 9-9-9-27.
Make sure you do some stress testing because you are up around the ragged edge of instability.