Well, after (too) much research, I have gotten what seems to be the best option: the Havik 140. Went with it because it seems to be the most silent option while still cooling as good as the Noctua and others. Looks great. Haven't installed yet, but I'll follow up when I do.
How do you like it is it loud? Im deciding between the Havik 140 and the Thermalright Truespirit 140 or the Macho