Two quick things...
1) Remove the plastic cover over the ATX plug and plug in the 8-pin
2) RAM should be installed so the farthest slot from the CPU is filled (Slot 1) and the memory should be filled in every other slot moving back toward the CPU (slots 3 & 5).
You hit the problem in 1 it was the 4 pin ATX connector as soon As I popped off the cap and put the 8 pin ATX connector it was fine :-) Thank you very much for your help.
(The memory is in the correct settings as you listed.)
One other question as I am building this system I keep flicking back to my other desktop. My monitor has 2 connections a VGA and DVI connector is there any problem connecting both systems to the same monitor and then using the input select to jump to each system ?
System 1 connected by VGA
system 2 connected by DVI