Thank you. I'm sure that is the problem. I did a LOT of research before buying these components, but I guess I missed that. I tried a different video card and it made no difference. A friend is bringing me two sticks out of his i7 860 just to make sure.
I knew the RAM had higher voltage requirements, but I thought that was just if you want to overclock it to the rated 7-7-6-18 timings. I was running it at 1333 9-9-9 just to get my system up and running.