Turn off Auto Update and select "Choose which updates to install" then you periodically check the list for mny updates that you think should be installed.
Go into Device Manager and see if there are any errors, if so do a re-install or update of thoserdevices that are in error.
When you shut down, there usually is a message on the Shut down box asking if you want to install new updates the next time you power on. Click yeas then restart and allow those updates to continue, do not exit.