1) use diskpart (or easeus partition magic) to format your HDD and assign a drive letter for windows to recognize it:
http://www.hdd-tool.com/partition-magic/use-diskpart-command-to-resize-partitions.htm
2) 60GB is PLENTY of room for windows and a few games/programs, just be sure to use less than 80% of the drive, just like a HDD, so that windows dosn't start freaking out on you.
3) You can change the cache setting for adobe and other programs... but it would slow down the computer (as you would run them off the HDD instead of the SSD), and they don't take a ton of space, so this is not suggested. I would go into your browser and change your download location to the HDD, and go to your libraries and move your documents/mustic/movies folders to the HDD as those are things that will eat space, but do not benefit a whole lot from being on a SSD (because they only need to be read at real-time speed which a HDD from the mid '90's can do just fine, much less a new one).
4)
http://www.tomshardware.com/reviews/ssd-performance-tweak,2911.html Make sure to follow this guide to get the most out of the SSD for speed and longevity. Be weary of turning off the page file as it can cause issues if you run out of system memory, but if you are a normal user with 4GB of ram it should be safe. If you are a power user playing games and doing a lot of multi-tasking I would not turn it off unless you have 8GB. If you do ANY HD video editing then do not turn it off ever. Turning it off will save you as many GB of SSD space as you have in RAM (so this gets important to turn off if you are running 8 or 16GB of ram on a 60GB SSD).
5) If you are seriously unsure about your file management, and are affraid you will fill the drive up on accident then I would suggest starting over and installing to the HDD and then using the SSD as a cache. Follow the instructions for using Intel RST and you will get speed 'near' that of your SSD for things you use a lot, but without having to worry about filling up your drive, or doing something wrong. Obviously, caching technology is not perfect, so some things will not run fast all the time, but it is a good compromise.