I dont know if this is the right forum category or w.e being that I'm new to this ***.
I been thinking about building my own computer for games and what not, but i have no idea where to even start.
if anyone could offer suggestions that would be great
First, you'll want to get a good idea of the system requirements of the games you're looking to play. Decide how much you want to spend on the system and look around for deals. Newegg has a lot of combo deals and random specials.
There are a lot of resources online with tutorials and even video on the subject of building a computer. It isn't hard, but does require some manual dexterity, passing ability with hand tools, attention to detail, and patience. Then it is very rewarding, maybe even addictive; I know I get itchy if I don't get to build a machine every now and then :-).
The stickies randomizer mentioned will assist with parts selection, troubleshooting common problems, and other questions typical of new builds. One of them contains a template for asking for new build advice. The more research you've done, likely the more respect you will get as far as the tone of answers, and the more information you can provide, the more relevant those answers are likely to be.