I have never built an AMD sys need help

I am confused as to what this system will be used for. Are you intending to only use the onboard graphics?

Everything will work fine together but there are a couple suggestions i would make.

Your power supply is significantly more powerful than what you need, a TPQ-850 could run 2 GTX 480s in SLI easily, its wayy more than you need if you will just be using onboard graphics, for that the corsair 400CX would be more than enough.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Prod [...] &Tpk=400cx

I do plan on using the on board graphics but for how long i don't know and as far as the gaming is concerned i was addicted to WOW for a while and i don't know if another game will come along that will grab me like that. so if i do go with the gaming as a later option i can always add a graphics card. And so on to the PSU i read for over 2hrs on PSUs and what i got out of it is you never ever have enough power as the longer it is used the less powerful it is now don't get me wrong i could have miss read a few things as when i was reading about PSUs it was well into the night like 4:00am or some crap like that. and one last thing to the PSU issue i had try to help my buddy fix his computer one time and everything kept going out on it the one thing that seemed to be good was the PSU but when it was all said and done the PSU was shooting random voltages to the MOBO which in turn was frying components. The Mobo is somthing that i really liked on this build but i would like to know if i am totally wrong on that (Things i liked USB3.0, HDMI,DDR3 2000(O.C.) / 1333 / 1066,2600MHz Hyper Transport (5200 MT/s) & the fact that i don't have to decide on a graphics card as of yet)

If you want the option to go to a dedicated GPU in the future you only really need a good 550W unit, but since you can get the TP-650 combo'd with the Antec 900 its a pretty good deal. Just be aware that your board only supports 16/4 crossfire so you probably want to stick with a single card.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Comb [...] mbo.410719

As to what you read about PSUs, yes the capacity of a power supply is reduced as it ages, however, higher quality units are capable well above their ratings and at much higher temperatures than it will normally experience. The corsair 400CX i recommended is more powerful than many cheaper 550W units, and is more than capable of its ratings. The higher quality units are rated at 50C, while cheaper units are rated at 25C, so you actually have more power available than the label indicates on higher quality units so chances are that over the course of 5 years that you are using it it will still be able to deliver its rated power at normal temps just fine. I refuse to recommend cheapo PSUs because they are more prone to failure and damaging components, but higher quality units use better components with much lower failure rates so you have a lower risk of it going bad and damaging any components.

If i were you i'd just hit a quality 500-650 80+ PSU with an 880G chipset. You dun sound like a HC gamer and even 8/8 CF boards sound overkill hehe Have a look at these boards

Gigabyte 880GA-UD3H
Asrock 880GExtreme3

i have a hard time choosing heat sinks any help with that? i am looking for a HS that doesn't have to be modded to work with certain ram but will get the job done! Since that mobo doesn't have onboard graphics any help with that not getting too expensive like around 60$ for now? what do you mean XS?

If it's for gaming you don't need the X6 but you DO need a good video card.

was reading about that Heat sink and it sounds great but the case i am looking at (Antec 900) would have to be modded (Removing the case fan) to make that Heat sink work, also has anyone ever bought anything like a graphics card from ebay cause it seems kinda weird? i mean RMAs and DOAs are definitely a concern of mine if i were to go ebay.