You'd do better to follow the guidelines from the link in my signature. We need to have a budget, and a lot of other information to give you good advice.
You do realize that you need a 3D montior to play 3D games, right? The cheapest is this
iZ3D 1650x1080 for $300. Or there's this
Acer 1080p for $370.
To get a smooth 3D gaming experience, you're going to need a lot more power than the 470 provides. You're likely looking at spending around $500-1,000 on the GPU(s) alone, making the cheapest build you could get with this about $1,300-$2,300, not including extras. All told, you'd need to be spending $1,700 at least to get a functioning build (with the OS and monitor).
I would also be remiss if I didn't point out that 3D is pretty much a waste right now. Games don't use it right now and the technology is very immature. You'd do better to wait for it to be useful and done right before making such a large investment.
EDIT: I should also point out some issues with the parts you've choosen outside of the monitor. First, the X4 965 is just a factory overclocked 955. Save the $20-30 and get the cheaper one.
Second, since you're planning to overclock (and 4 GHz isn't high), you'll want faster sticks of RAM than 1333 mhz. You'd want 1600 mhz CAS Latency 7 ones at least (these
G.Skill Eco sticks would be perfect).
Third, 16x/16x makes no difference over 8x/8x. It's literally a 4% gain, but only really effects people using dual HD 5970s. I'd recommend the
Gigabyte GA-790XTA-UD4.
Fourth, even without my 3D points above, the 470/480 aren't good choices. They're overly expensive, offer minimal performance increases over the HD 5850 and HD 5870, run extremely hot, use massive power, and their added features (PhysX, CUDA, 3D) simply aren't relavent to gaming in the next 3-5 years. You'd do better to go with ATI.
Finally, despite all this, if you still wanted to stick with the new nVidia cards, a 800W PSU isn't enough for SLI. I wouldn't want anything less than an 850W for the 470 or anything under 1000W for the 480.
Also, sound cards are a waste of money. Onboard sound is excellent and supports surround sound already. A discrete card that does better is going to run around $100 and up, so unless you're a huge audiophile, there isn't a point in shelling the money out. Especially before you've tried what's free.