You have two different cards there, one has 112 shaders and is a 9800GT, the other has 256 and that is a 9800GX2 dual GPU card which will not SLi with a 9800GT.
nah there both 9800gts i ordered them together they look xactly the same and before i started ******* around with them they showed up as the same thing, thank you all for ur help i got it tho. i used http://xdevs.com/e107_plugins/content/content.php?content.30
and there is an SLI patch for any motherboard that has 2 pci-e slots VERY HELPFUL!http://img704.imageshack.us/img704/9568/23699807.png
geuss this is more comformation u can SLI on a p5q Pro