I forget to mention a couple things. First I have run teh FSB at 250 with no problems before with 2 sticks of identical ram (my old sticks). I bought another set of 2 sticks recently (my new sticks). The old sticks run fsb up to 250 no problems. If I replace the old sticks with the new ones (or put all 4 sticks in) It will not post past 210 FSB, even with the ram timings lowers.
Other things to note: My cpu/NB are both capable of running at 250 fsb w/o changing multipliers. Infact everything seems to be working good except these 2 new sticks cant handle a FSB change and I have no idea why that is. I have a GA-990FXA-UD5 so I have lots of Bios options that should be albe to fix this (at least I hope), but I have no idea where to begin as beyond the first standard ram timings the settings are greek to me.