I have the Gen3 version of this board.
Here are my specs.
Intel i7 2600K @4.2 Ghz
AsusP8Z68-V Pro/Gen3
16GB Corsair Vengeance Blue 1600Mhz RAM @1.5v
HAF X RC-942 black full sized tower
Corsair HX1050
Corsair H80 Liquid Cooler
1x 240Gb OCZ Vertex 3 Sata 600
1x 1TB WD Caviar Black WDFAEX1002
LG SuperMulti Blue BH10LS30
Scythe Kaze Master Pro fan control KM03-BK
2x MSI n580GTX Lightning sli
Windows 7 Ultimate 64bit
I haven't had any problems at all. So far, this is one of the best and easiest to use boards that I've owned.
Also, the V Pro manual should show you how the cpu is correctly installed. So you can line it up properly, and more specifically so the pins don't end up bent. If it isn't explained, here are a few easy steps to follow to get you through it. Take care before touching anything, and ground yourself. Don't put any components on a rug, or cloth. Set them on the antistatic bag that they come with. Anyway, 1st, you unlock and open the metal bracket. 2nd, you remove the plastic cover inside the bracket. 3rd, you hold the CPU so the writing is facing you, the arrow on the corner edge should face the bottom left corner of the CPU, and the 2 indentations on the cpu should line up with the board at that point. They won't line up if the Cpu is in the wrong position. Those pins will bend, if you place it in any other position. Just be sure of the position before you attempt to place it. Also, don't touch the pins or the part of the CPU that connects to the pins with your hands. The slightest pressure against or static touching those areas can damage them. After being properly placed, you can carefully close and lock the bracket.
Also, do your best not to touch the board capacitors. Try not to drop screws on the mainboard, or tighten the mainboard screws too much. As far as your cooler goes, there is a professional video on youtube that shows you how to correctly install the H80/H100 cooler. So, you don't damage any other components.
Next.The RAM installation can be tricky sometimes. You should be using the 2nd slot from the left and the 4th slot. Open the lock, and carefully push the RAM into place. Take care that the RAM is not on an angle and that it is pushed firmly and evenly, but not roughly. If you try to rush it and press too hard, you will damage the RAM or the mainboard and possibly both. I only say this, because you already sent one mainboard back, and I'm sure you don't want to do it again. Here is one last note for the RAM installation. If you install 1600Mhz RAM you may need to manually change the memory settings in the advanced mode from auto to 1600Mhz@1.5v, because the default setting in auto is set to 1333Mhz@1.5v. Once you have the memory installed, working, and set properly, try not to change it again. You don't want to risk damaging them by taking them out and putting them back in multiple times.
Anyway, after reading everything above, it is best that you sent the mainboard back, because you couldn't rule out any other damage to the mainboard at that point. Unless the RAM or the new CPU were damaged during installation on the last board, they should work, when the new board comes. Good luck with the new board.