The power recommendations on the cards are for the system as a whole, a GTX 560 does not require 30A for itself, that would be 360W just for the card, a GTX 560Ti needs about 170W or 14.2A per card, so they need less than 30A for a pair, the rest of the system will need a couple hundred watts and the remainder is a bit of overhead to allow for upgrades, overclocking, and aging. An XFX 750W unit has plenty of power for 2 GTX 560Ti with a fair amoutn of OCing.
6+2 pin connectors are not a draw back, they are an advantage, they work as 6 pin connectors or as 8 pin connectors so that you dont end up with a couple 8 pins that you cannot use if you card only needs 2 6 pin connectors as an 8 pin will not fit.
I see your two main options as keep the HX 1000 because it is a good unit, or trade it for an XFX 750W unit and save a good chunk of change, the 850W unit wont benefit you and will just cost you more than the 750W so its not worth checking on.