Can you get the machine to POST? If the machine doesn't POST (basically meaning that it doesn't even show the inital bootup screens) then you needs to check the following:
1.) Is there a CPU power connector that needs to be plugged in?
2.) Is there a Graphics Card power connector that needs plugged in?
3.) Can you boot with the integrated graphics card? (Remove the graphics card. Plug the monitor into the motherboard's VGA port.)
4.) Make sure that the RAM is on the correct slot (consult your motherboard's manual)
5.) Remove all peripherals from the computer (Hard Drive, CD ROM Drive, Graphics Card, Sound Card, Floppy Drive) and see if the machine will try to boot.
If the machine still does not show any display on integrated graphics with all peripherals removed, either the motherboard or power supply is to blame. You can get a power supply tester at Best Buy (more expensive but quicker) or newegg to rule out a power supply if you want.
The mobo isn't beeping. Maybe it is my ram.
The GTX is running as the fan is spinning in it, the board is getting power.
I guess its starting to look like maybe my ram got damaged.
This move is just getting more and more expensive.
James, look in your mobo's manual to see if there is a specified set of beep codes for POST errors. If you don't have it on hand you can find it online. If it's not beeping when there should be beep codes it's definitely a mobo/PSU.