I would reset the heatsink before you run it again tomorrow. Even if the paste isn't settled yet, it should not be hitting anywhere near 100 C
Thanks, that seemed to do it, now running OCCT my max temp is 70c, a little high for my taste/ or what i expected, but much better than 90C. When i lifted the Heatsink i noticed that only about half of the thermal paste made good pressure contact, the other half of the cpu had a very light film on in, which indicated i didnt push the pins in far enough. Now the only question i have is about turbo boost, im only getting 3.5ghz according to the intel turbo monitor. i was hoping higher around at least 3.8, but maybe because the max temp is 70c it wont go that far?