Thanks, i dont think they match up right though.
Toms benchmark is pretty good, i plan on playing at 1280x768 resolution. The others show 25 fps on 1280x1024. Is that a drastic change in resolution or not really?
Tom's bench at the 1280x1024 did not have AF or AA enabled, so you should be able to gain some FPS using the same settings but at a smaller resolution. Your smaller resolution as compared to the bench will help in gaining FPS over what the bench reports, provided that you use the same settings. Enabling AF and/or AA will impact your FPS, but 95FPS is overkill.
Guru did state that a 9600 was able to play the game at 1980x1200 @ 31 FPS, and the the 9800GTX+ was pulling 43FPS. So you should be looking at more than 43FPS while playing at your resolution.
Bottom line - the GTS 250 will play this game at your resolution with AF and/or AA enabled (though I don't know what the max levels are for each setting, something you're going to have to play around with.)