What monitor do i need for Geforce GTX 460

Hi!
My old geforce 8600GT card broke today and i got a new one.
The problem is that my monitor (Philips 190S) cable doesn´t fit the graphics card.
when i say doesn´t fit i mean it simply wont go in. My question is:
Is there a cable out there that is bigger on one end and smaller on the other?
I´m hoping that there is or i will have to get a new ´monitor, and if that is the case could any1 recommend a monitor that will work good with the graphics card(Geforce 460 GTX).

I hope ivé been clear about my problem and that i can get a fast reply.

Sorry if this is in the wrong section.

Thanks for the help
//R