That's the most ridiculous thing I ever heard.
Did you check the qualified memory list for the motherboard? http://www.asrock.com/mb/memory.asp?Model=H61iCafe
I mean who needs 4 dimm slots on a H61 anyways? I didn't know they even made H61's with 4 dimm slots.
Why do you need 16gb of ram?
Yes, I checked. There is no single-sided combination of 4 sticks totaling 16GB listed on the QVL. Yet the board states that it will accept 16GB.
I don't need
16GB. I just wanted
16GB. But from what I'm learning, the H61 chip set was never designed to supply more than 2 DIMM slots. So maybe I'm out of luck?