atomik9274 :
can i just get any desktop DDR2 ram?
Considering how much more expensive DDR2 is today relative to DDR3, you might want to consider a platform upgrade instead of only a RAM upgrade on your existing platform depending on how much RAM you want to upgrade to.
In my case, I want to upgrade from 8GB to 16GB which would mean replacing all my existing RAM (4x2GB DDR2) by 4x4GB DDR2 at a cost of ~$350 when 16GB DDR3 (2x8GB) only costs ~$120. The $230 difference covers the cost of an i5-3470 + half the cost of a new motherboard so in my case, a platform upgrade makes a whole lot more sense.
If you are only planning to add 2-4GB, upgrading your existing platform is still economically viable if you are otherwise satisfied with its performance. Since 800MHz DDR2 is the lowest common denominator, it should be relatively easy to find compatible modules.