There are a lot of people posting here that know their stuff and giving sound accurate information, while one cannot make up your mind for you or force you to make a decision on one or the other, the quality of information received is adequate to help you form an opinion.
1] Rather save yourself some buck and get the X 4 955 BE as the 980 BE is a superclocked version of the 955 and the price difference is hardly justified.
2] It is common knowledge that Intel edge AMD in CPU power and efficiency, understandably they can be more expensive, but you pay for the quality.
I am one to try new things and stop feeding the big cash cow corporates, so in that sense I would like nothing more than to support AMD and motherboard manufacturers over ASUS and Gigabyte, the problem is that by everyone going one way, gives these big enterprises carte Blanche to ramp up prices due to lack of competitors. That said if you consider going to AMD consider;
1] Waiting a bit if possible, right now buying old Phenom 2 technology is a waste of money and running yourself into a dead end upgrade path.
2] Research more, AMD are releasing new processors soon and the Bulldozer may be a far more worthwhile option to go with.
3] DON'T buy for the sake of buying, know what you want and be convinced of it.
I know from your posts that your prime objective appears to be oc'ing, just remember that oc'ing a processor, RAM, etc is like NOS to a car engine, while the performance short term goes up, the wear and tare is greater and the shelf life of the chip becomes less. Right now a stock 2500K can destroy any game so the oc'ing is totally unnecessary.