ahh, im getting about 57-61 in games and 71-78 in burn tests (note, i stopped IBT after after 2 minutes because i didnt want to damage processor). what temperatures would i be looking at with each of these kits?
Go for the H80 if not the H100. For a first timer it's safer to go with the Closed Loop coolers, unless you feel extremely confident and want to try out the XSPC.
The options would be limitless, since after you manage the LC of the Processor you can go ahead and LC your 560Ti too, if you felt like it with the XSPC.
If you don't plan to overclock to extremes then the H80 or H100 will do absolutely fine, although you might need to get more silent fans for them, since under heavy load for a longer period of time, the fans of the rad become audible.....
If you go down the 'proper' water route,
get the RX series rad, its nealry twice the thickness of the Rs's and if you decide to O/c in future, it will give you plenty of headroom if its a Cpu-only loop